He Rules the World with Truth and Grace
It’s not
often that a news article brings me to tears, but recently I read one that
did. It’s by David Von Drehle of Time
magazine, titled, “How
Do You Forgive a Murder?” It’s about
the people who were victims of the shooting at Emmanuel AME church in
Charleston, South Carolina last summer, and their families. We all remember that event, we all remember
the hateful racial views of the shooter, and we all remember how the survivors
and families bravely forgave him. But
this story told me who those people really were. It helped me see how difficult it was to
forgive, and how their faith made it possible.
Felicia Sanders was in that room when the shooting started. She was with her adult son and her little granddaughter. The son, Tywanza, was a guy who Von Drehle
says was so joyous and ambitious, “if life was a multiple choice test, his
answer was all of the above.” As he
watched this stranger coldly mow down innocent people who had welcomed him into
their small Bible study, Tywanza bravely approached him and said, “You don’t
have to do this.” The shooter said, “You
rape our women and you’re taking over our country, and you have to go,” and
shot Tywanza at close range. Felicia
Sanders saw her son die, as she crouched on the floor with her
granddaughter. She is certain that the
only reason the two of them are alive today is that they both were so
completely covered in the blood of her son, they looked dead. Sanders forgave the shooter because she felt
she had no choice. If she didn’t, she
was afraid the hate that shooter felt would invade her own soul. She asked the FBI for the Bible her son
carried that night. They said it was unrecoverable. She said she wanted it anyway. So the FBI’s high-tech lab in Quantico
cleaned the Bible as carefully as possible, page by page. This is how the article ends: “She has it
now. The pages are pink with blood that
can never wash away. But she can still
make out the words.”
We
all want to believe that these were the actions of a mentally ill person, and
that’s that. But that same hatred is
alive in all of us. Every one of us, if
we’re honest, would admit there is some group of people we take pleasure in
looking down on. Maybe it’s not a
particular race, but people who look, think speak, dress or act differently
than us in some way. Prejudice happens
when you take something about yourself that you find valuable, that gives you
identity, and then look down on people who are different. You take that difference and give it moral
weight. To give just one example: As a
parent, I tend to look down on people who make different parenting choices than
I do. When I see a child running loose
in a restaurant or yelling loudly, I think to myself, “We would never have let
our kids do that when they were little.
We would have taken them outside.
Those must be really thoughtless parents.” Do you see what I did there? I made a moral judgment about someone without
knowing anything about them. I did it
because it made me feel good; I am a better parent and a more thoughtful
guy. We all do this. It just depends on what’s important to your
identity. People who are in great shape
look down on people who eat bacon cheeseburgers and never exercise. People who are hard workers look down
on people who sleep late and don’t take care of their lawns. People who are highly educated look down on
people who use poor grammar. But what if
that group you look down on suddenly in some way becomes a threat to your way
of life? Then that smugness becomes
hatred. Under the right circumstances, it can become violent: It's a guy shooting into a car full of teenagers because their music was too loud. It's a tribe in Rwanda committing genocide on their own neighbors. That prejudice is alive
in all of us, ticking like a time bomb, dividing us from one another. So what
is the ultimate answer? Surely it isn’t
religion, right? After all, doesn’t
religion divide us? Throughout this
Christmas season, we’ve been in a series called Far as the Curse is Found.
We’ve been talking about what God intends to do through Jesus in this
messed-up world. We’ve seen how Jesus
will be a King who gives us the kind of leadership we’ve always needed. We’ve seen how He will redeem the planet, the
same way He has redeemed each of our individual souls. But here in verse 10, we see something else
Jesus will do: He will unite humanity. How? Come and get some good news, just in time for Christmas.
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