My
friend Joe McKeever was pushing his eight-year-old granddaughter in a swing one
day, when she suddenly looked up and said, “I don’t want to have any
children. It hurts too bad.” What he didn’t realize is that his daughter,
this little girl’s mom, had been talking to her about childbirth, or as we used
to call it, “explaining the birds and the bees.” Joe is one of the wisest men I know, but even
he had a hard time coming up with a response.
Finally, he said, “Yes, it does hurt.
But then you have this beautiful baby, and it’s all worth it.” She
replied, “You’re a man. What do you
know?”
That
girl is going to go far in life. But her
point is more true than she knows. What
do we (men or women) really know? It’s funny
in a way to look back at some of the predictions that experts made this past
year. They were convinced that it would
be a record year for hurricanes, and it wasn’t. They didn’t predict a record
year for the flu, and it is. And they
were certain that the Texans would be one of the best teams in football this
year (No comment). And those are
experts! It is a scary world we live
in. We don’t know what will happen
tomorrow. As a pastor, I counsel people all the time who suffer sudden, unexpected losses: They get a phone call from the hospital informing them that their child has been in an accident; they get called into the boss's office to hear that due to budget shortfalls, their position is being eliminated; they visit the doctor for their regular checkup only to find out that something is seriously wrong. We fool ourselves into thinking that the man-made empires we construct are impervious, but they're actually houses of cards. There really is very little we can be certain
of in this life.
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